What to Expect the First Night Home: A Bernedoodle Puppy Parent’s Guide

Sherrie May Crescini
Jul 3
2 min read

Bringing home your Bernedoodle puppy is an exciting milestone—but that first night can feel overwhelming for both of you. It's completely normal for new puppy parents to feel a mix of joy, nerves, and questions. Don’t worry—you’re not alone. This guide will walk you through what to expect and how to help your new furry family member settle in smoothly.

1. Expect Whimpers—and That’s Okay

Your puppy has just left everything familiar: littermates, mom, and the only home they’ve ever known. Whining or crying during the first night is a natural response to the change.

What to do:

Keep your puppy close (placing their crate in your bedroom is ideal).
Offer comfort through your voice, gentle touch, or a soft blanket that smells like their litter.
Be patient. You’re building trust, one calm moment at a time.

2. Set Up a Cozy Crate Spot

Sleep training starts with a cozy, safe space. A crate gives your puppy a den-like environment that helps reduce anxiety and encourages better sleep habits.

Tips for crate success:

Add soft bedding and a snuggle toy (some even have a heartbeat simulator).
Place a blanket over the crate to create a calming, enclosed feel.
Keep the space quiet and dim at bedtime.

3. Expect Middle-of-the-Night Potty Breaks

Puppies under 12 weeks old can’t hold their bladder all night. Plan to set an alarm every 2–3 hours for a quick potty break outside.

Pro Tip:

Take your puppy straight out, praise when they go, and return to the crate without too much stimulation.

4. Stick to a Simple Routine

Dogs thrive on routine—especially puppies. Even on night one, begin introducing:

A consistent bedtime
Last potty and feeding schedule
Lights out = quiet time

The more predictability you give your puppy, the faster they’ll settle into your rhythm.

5. Avoid the Urge to “Cave”

We know it’s tempting to scoop them into your bed when they cry—but doing so on night one can create habits that are hard to break later.

Instead, offer reassurance from a short distance and remind yourself: this stage is temporary.

6. Celebrate the Little Wins

Did they go potty outside? Sleep for two straight hours? Explore their crate on their own? That’s progress. This first night is all about building confidence, safety, and trust.

Final Thoughts

Your Bernedoodle’s first night home may be a little rough—but it's also the start of an incredible bond. Stay patient, be consistent, and remember: every new experience is shaping the confident, loving companion they’ll become.

You’ve got this—and we’re here for every step.

📸 Share Your First Night Story

We’d love to hear how your pup’s first night went! Tag us @Bernedoodle.do on Instagram or drop a photo in the comments.